Episode 153

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6th May 2025

How to Create a Workplace That Brings Out The Best In Employees | Aiko Bethea

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What if the key to better DEI, culture, and leadership wasn’t external, but internal?


In this powerful episode of the HR L&D Podcast, Nick Day is joined by Aiko Bethea, leadership coach, equity consultant, and founder of RARE Coaching & Consulting, to explore why transformational leadership starts with self-awareness, rest, and deep curiosity.


Forget checking boxes, Aiko breaks down why DEI is an outcome, not a skill, and how HR leaders can drive real change by shifting their mindset and behaviors first.


Whether you’re a CHRO, people manager, or HR professional looking to build inclusive workplaces, this episode is packed with actionable strategies on:

  • How to lead with vulnerability
  • The coaching stance that transforms team dynamics
  • Rest and wellness as leadership tools
  • Critical curiosity and belief excavation
  • Creating psychological safety from the top down


If you're ready to move from surface-level inclusion to real, sustainable impact, this conversation will challenge and inspire you.



RARE Coaching & Consulting Website: https://www.rarecoaching.net/

Connect with Aiko Bethea on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aikobethea/



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Thanks for listening folks – I look forward to bringing you the next episode of the HR L&D Podcast real soon!



(00:00) Meet Aiko Bethea & RARE Coaching

(03:45) Why DEI Is Not a Skill

(07:28) The Power of Self-Awareness

(11:06) Critical Curiosity and Excavating Beliefs

(14:39) The Coaching Stance: From Control to Curiosity

(18:01) Listening for Connection, Not Just Understanding

(21:15) Wellness, Rest, and the Leadership Equation

(25:06) Breaking the Hustle Culture in HR

(28:48) Anchoring Into Values and Accountability

(32:11) How Leaders Can Create Psychological Safety

(35:27) Internal Work Before External DEI Change

(38:04) Aiko’s Book: Anchored, Aligned, and Accountable

(40:50) Advice for HR Leaders and Organizations

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